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“Do you remember our talks about how women visualize male
gentleness and dominance, Sandy?” “Sure, but you never quite
understood what I was trying to say, Jim. The reason why women
perceive aggression, hopefully mild, as erotic and seductive is
that it cloaks their guilt, guilt fashioned by society’s
inhibitions on the sex act, particularly for women.” “No, I see
what you are saying and it is clear in your life isn’t it? You
find me interesting because I am a little different, I call it
gentle, you probably have other words for it. And then I hear
about your husband and your first husband. Don’t get me wrong, I
think very highly of your husband and even if I didn’t, because
he is your husband and you love him I am his Number Two fan. (My
envy of him will go unspoken!) It is just that you wished WE
could be back the was it was, “loving” each other platonically
and, of course we can’t, because of your guilt feelings and fear.
But that is not all that is not the same was it was.”